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One of the most important financial decisions you will ever make is marriage (more specifically who you marry and when). By putting off the walk down the aisle for a few years, you can save a decade worth of frustration. Your first goal should be to become financially independent, with little or no debt, and have your investments in place. Once you have these three things, your odds of success are drastically improved by beginning your journey on a level playing field (after all, the number-one reason for divorce is financial trouble).
| How to Become Wealthy |
| Nine Truths That Can Set You on the Path to Financial Freedom |
#1: Change the Way You Think About Money
The general population has a love / hate relationship with wealth. They hate
people who have it, but spend their entire lives trying to get it for themselves.
The reason a vast majority of people never accumulate a substantial nest egg is because
they don't understand the nature of money or how it works.
Cash, like a person, is a living thing. When you wake up in the morning and go to work, you are selling a product - yourself [or more specifically, your labor]. When you realize that every morning your assets wake up and have the same potential to work as you do, you unlock a powerful key in your life. Each dollar you save is like an employee. Over the course of time, the goal is to make your employees work hard, and eventually, they will make enough money to hire more workers [cash]. When you have become truly successful, you no longer have to sell your own labor, but can live off of the labor of your assets.
#2: Develop an Understanding of the Power of Small Amounts
The biggest mistake most people make is that they think they have to start with
an entire Napoleon-like army. They suffer from the "not enough" mentality;
namely that if they aren't making $1,000 or $5,000 investments at a time, they will never
become rich. What these people don't realize is that entire armies were built one
soldier at a time, and so will their financial arsenal.
A friend of mine once knew a woman who worked as a dishwasher and made her purses out of old liquid detergent bottles. This woman invested and saved everything she had - a few dollars at a time. Now, she has a portfolio worth millions upon millions of dollars, all of which was built upon small investments. I am not suggesting you become this frugal, but make a point to put two or three dollars a day into an investment account. Before you know it, you are savings just shy of $1,000 a year. Do not despise the day of small beginnings!
#3: With Each Dollar You Save, You Are Buying Yourself Freedom
When you put it in these terms, you see how spending $20 here and $40 there can
make a huge difference in the long run. Since money has the ability to work in your
place, the more of it you employ, the faster and larger it will grow. Along with more
money comes more freedom - the freedom to stay home with your kids, the freedom to retire
and travel around the world, or the freedom to quit your job. If you have any source
of income, it is possible for you to start building wealth today. It may only be $5
or $10 at a time, but each of those investments is a stone in the foundation of your
financial freedom.
#4: You Are Responsible for Where You Are in Your Life
Years ago, a friend told me she
didn't want to invest in stocks because she "didn't want to wait ten years to be
rich..." she would rather enjoy her money now. The folly with this school
of thinking is that the odds are, you are going to be alive in ten years.
The question is whether or not you will be better off when you arrive there.
Where you are right now is the sum total of the decisions you have made in the
past. Why not set the stage for your life in the future right now?
How do you do that?...
#5: Instead of Buying the Product... Buy the Stock!
Someone once asked me why they weren't wealthy. They always felt like
they were putting money aside, yet never seemed to get any further ahead. The answer
is simple... I told them to stop buying the products companies sell and start buying the
company itself! According to a survey of America's affluent (those who make over
$225,000 a year or own $3,000,000 in assets) showed that 27-30% of all the income the
wealthy earned went into investments and savings. That isn't a result of being
rich... that is why they are rich, and some of you reading this right now are not. When
the pain of getting out of the bondage of financial slavery is greater than the pain of
changing your spending habits, you will become rich. Either change, or be
content to live like you are.
#6: Study and Admire Success and Those Who Have Achieved It... Then Emulate It
A very wise investor once said to pick the traits you admire and dislike the
most about your heroes, then do everything in your power to develop the traits you like
and reject the ones you don't. Mold yourself into who you want to become. You'll
find that by opening yourself up and investing in yourself first, you will begin to
provide ways for money to flow into your life. Success and wealth beget success and
wealth. You have to purchase your way into that cycle, and you do so by building
your army one soldier at a time and putting your money to work for you.
#7: Realize that More Money is Not the Answer
More money is not going to solve your problem. Money is a magnifying
glass - it will accelerate and bring to light your true habits. If you are not
capable of handling a job paying $18,000 a year, the worst possible thing that could
happen to you is for you to earn six figures. It would destroy you. I have met
too many people earning $100,000 a year who are living from paycheck to paycheck and don't
understand why it is happening. The problem isn't the size of their checkbook - it
is the way in which they were taught to use money.
#8: Unless Your Parents were Wealthy, Don't do what They Did
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and
expecting a different result. If your parents were not living the life you want to
live - then don't do what they did. You have to break away from the way the past
generations managed their finances if you want to have a different lifestyle than they
had.
To achieve the financial freedom and success that your family may or may not have had, you have to do two things. First, you have to pay off all your debt. Make a decision that you will not allow yourself to be in debt any longer, and then when you have, do everything in your power to get out of debt. Put as much money as you can toward your payments, and before long, you will be able to 2.) start investing in stocks and / or mutual funds.
Purchasing equity is vital to your financial success as an individual. Not only does it provide extra income in some cases [through means of a dividend], but also provides the opportunity for your fortune to grow in synch with that of a company. Nowhere else can your money do as much for you as when you use it to invest in a business that has wonderful long-term prospects.
#9: Stop Worrying
The miracle of life is that it doesn't matter so much where you are - it
matters where you are going. Once you have made the choice to take control back of your
life by building up your net worth, don't give a second thought to the "what
ifs" of finance. Every moment that goes by, you are growing and getting closer and
closer to your ultimate goal - control and freedom.
Rest assured, it will happen. If you are diligent and work at it, the day will come when you make your last payment on your car, your house, or whatever else it is you owe. Once that happens, do everything you can to avoid going into debt again. When you see it for what it really is - slavery - you won't have a problem rejecting it.
Each week, the host visited celebrities and royalty at their luxurious mansions, fawning over their exotic cars, million-dollar jewelry, and lavish wardrobes. It was conspicuous consumption at its most nauseating, and viewers couldn’t get enough of it.
But don’t we all secretly envy the rich and famous? Don’t we believe that if only we were rich, it would solve all our problems? Don’t we long to be recognized and loved by millions of people?
This craving for fortune is nothing new. Two thousand years ago Jesus said, "It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God." (Mark 10:25 NIV)
Why is that? Jesus, who knew the human heart better than anyone ever has or ever will, understood that it's a matter of priorities. Too often, rich people make wealth their number one priority instead of God. They spend most of their time making wealth, spending it, and increasing it. In a very real sense, money becomes their idol.
God won’t stand for that. He told us so in his First Commandment: "You shall have no other gods before me." (Exodus 20:3 NIV).
Despite all their money, many rich people feel empty and without meaning. Some surround themselves with a dozen hangers-on, confusing opportunists with friends. Others get pulled in by New Age beliefs and religious cults, searching in vain for something that will help them make sense of their lives.
While it’s true that wealth can purchase all kinds of thrills and creature comforts, in the long run, those things amount to high-priced glitter and trash. Anything that ends up in a junkyard or landfill cannot satisfy the yearning in the human heart.
Our culture constantly hypes the new--new cars, new music players, new computers, new furniture, new clothes. Wearing something that’s out of style pegs you as a misfit, somebody who doesn’t quite "get it." And we all want to "get it" because we long for the approval of our peers.
So we’re caught somewhere in between, not poor but far from rich, and certainly not famous outside of our circle of family and friends. We yearn for the importance that money brings. We’ve seen enough rich people treated with respect and admiration to want a piece of that for ourselves.
We have God, but we want more. Just like Adam and Eve, we desperately desire to be bigger shots than we are. Satan lied to them then, and he’s still lying to us today.
We possess the richness of a salvation that can never be taken from us. This is the treasure that’s immune from moths and rust. We take it with us when we die, unlike money or fancy possessions.
We are famous and precious to our Savior, so much that he sacrificed himself so we can spend eternity with him. His love surpasses any earthly fame because it will never end.
It’s time to stop comparing houses, cars, clothes, and bank accounts. It’s time to stop feeling inadequate because we don’t own the outward symbols of success.
Instead, it’s time to turn our eyes to our intimate relationship with Jesus Christ. That’s where we’ll experience our greatest fulfillment. That’s where we’ll finally find all the riches we’ve ever wanted.
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It is important to continually improve your understanding of your finances, and how to best manage them. If you are looking for a way to change your spending habits, change the way you think about money and achieve financial freedom, you need to understand basic principles about money. These four books challenge the traditional view of money and start you on a path to achieving true financial independence.
This book challenges the assumptions that most Americans have about being well off. It looks at the habits of the average millionaire, and their assets. It points out common mistakes that most Americans make while trying to build wealth or when they want to act as though they are wealthy. This is a must read if you want to understand the difference between the truly wealthy and most other Americans. The majority of millionaires that they look at are self-made millionaires.
Dave Ramsey challenges the way that you look at your money. It provides an excellent plan that will help you to get out of debt so that you can truly begin to build wealth. He has a seven step plan that will lead to your financial independence. This plan does require sacrifice and hard work, but it does work. If you take the time to apply the principles with a real intensity you can get out of debt quickly.
This book challenges the views that most Americans view money. The author explains how he learned from his best friends dad how to look at money in a different way. He talks a lot about earning income from more than one source, and he talks about using real estate to build wealth. He also talks evaluating things to see how much they are costing you. For example he points out that a house may not be an asset, if it is costing you money each month. This is a good book if you are looking to build wealth and become financially independent.
This book will challenge the way that you value your money, your things and your time. The exercises that it takes you through give you the chance to see if your life goals are being met through your current job and financial situation. It contains a plan that can help you to have your financial goals match your life goals. It will also help you to gain financial independence over time.